MY HUSBAND IS PLANNING to leave me soon and he thinks that I don't know. Can you believe that after 14 years of marriage and 3 kids, he simply wants to discard me like I am trash?NOT GOING TO HAPPEN. Throughout our entire marriage he lies and I ignore it, he cheats and I still stand by his side, but now he has double crossed me and dragging him through a messy divorce simply won't cut deep enough. NO. I WANT MY POUND OF FLESH. Not literally of course, because I'm no killer, but then again thanks to my husband I've develop a knack for lying. I am not the same woman he married all those years ago, I have definitely changed, but I won't tell him that... I'd rather show him.